Now is this is the biggest question many people are wondering at the back of their mind. What is love? How do I know that this is love? Does he/she really love me?

To this questions, now let's compare what is true love and superficial love . True love is patient while superficial love is instant desire towards someone. What this means is if the other party is willing to wait for you until you are ready to be in a relationship, while being friends at the meanwhile, this is true love. Be it few months and even years, there is no hurry. The person takes time to observe you for he or she knows that you are going to be his or her so called "the one". Of course, you might say "huh! so long?", well then ask yourself, why hurry in the first place? Is it because you know the relationship won't last and might as well not waste this time sooner so that you can faster find your "the one" next time?

Well, dear ladies, for your information, always be alert when guys want to rush into things for more often then not, it is lust and not love. They themselves may know or may not even know it for they do not know what is love.

Therefore, superficial love is just a quick desire to get together. Just ask yourself, if the person really is interested in you, why is he or she not willing to even wait for you to be ready? For if he or she is really serious about you, you have all the time of the life together.

Now, true love is respectful, giving and not familar while superficial love is rude and demanding. True love mean for the ladies especially, the guys will be respectful towards you and not demand SEX saying things like "If you love me, you will give me". He will wait for your marriage day to have sex with you. For the greatest gift that can be given to your future husband will be your virginity (for those who lost it, God will restore it back) for he love you enough to marry you. If there is any stupid guys who said stuff like if you love me... blah blah blah... just tell them straight into their face, "You stupid or what? If sex is love, then if you visit the brothel mean you love them also la!"

Remember, LOVE NEVER DEMANDS, for he will respect you and wait for you. Sex need not be taught! It is a god given gift to be enjoyed AFTER marriage. Any idoit knows how to have sex and let no one tell you that one needs to be experienced! If he really cannot resist the temptation, one word,"FLEE!'. Its better to avoid such a situation than he cannot control himself or to do anything to harm you.

Back to love not being familar means despite being together for long, there is still this respect for each other like thinking in each other's perspective and not rudely answers each other everytime.

There is so much things I want to elaborate, but I am kinda of feeling so tired now after meeting up with my poly dearies. Well, shall elaborate next time. Nights.