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Thursday, August 31, 2006

「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 2:17 PM 」

Romance from the East


Does anybody know that today is the Valentine’s Day according to the Chinese calendar? Haha… I doubt so yah.

Here’s a story I got from the internet about the Chinese Valentine’s Day.

http://www.cherishcollectibles.com/site/1256072/page/746496

Perhaps this explains why it is raining so heavily today.

I believe all girls love to be pursued. Ask any girl and not one would deny the fact, no matter how spiritial she is. They need to know how special she is in guy’s heart. As you see, in the midst of being pursued, a girl will really feel this sense of importance in the guy’s priority. In ladies’ point of view, the effort you take to please a girl reflects how much you like or love her.

A very obvious difference between a crush and love will be this. A guy who has got a crush on a particular lady would be attracted to her mostly by her looks. He would not want to put in much effort in pleasing her. For the very simple reason that he don’t really wish her to be happy. He just wants to admire her, to keep in contact with her once in a while when he is bored or when he has completed his other tasks. And when a guy is in love with a lady, he will do anything he can just to make her happy. This is because just by seeing that she is happy is enough to make him happy. This is the true feeling of love- seeing the loved ones happy.

Ever heard of some stories that some couples who have dated for a long time and that the guy will always be so sweet to the girl. An example will be a couple who has been dating for say six years, and yet the guy will never fail to give the lady a surprise on her birthday and or to give small surprises. The friends of the guy may think that the guy is very stupid and wasteful in spending money on the girl. But the guy who really loves the girl will know just seeing her happy is worth him putting in all the effort. I am sure you heard stories that those guys who won the hands of their wives will mostly be those who are romantic. A girl will be willing to hand over her life to a guy who will go all extent to make her happy and safe. T

It is all those small memories and surprises that may remain in a lady’s heart all her life. Ever heard of your grandmother’s tales of how the grandfather won her hand. That is enough to prove my point. A grandma of old age can become forgetful but such sweet memories can never be forgotten. This process of courtship begins in ancient times when Niu Lang woos Zhi Nu. Ever wonder why the marriage levels in modern times are so low? Think of what I had said.

Having said that, the stories I heard where girlfriends praised how romantic their boyfriends treat them, more often than not, they all have very nice personalities. Perhaps the other reason why marriage levels are so low is also because girls nowadays don’t have those great personalities that make guys soft on the knees. More often than not, they have only bodies that guys will go soft on the knees.

And I am sure you hear of the number of divorce increasing. Why is that so? Ask the husbands, do they celebrate anniversaries? Do they remember their wives birthdays? You see, doing romantic things will make your wives fall in love with you all over again. The romance is just RENEWED! Oh oh, ok, for in your case, let the romance between you and your bf/ gf be renewed.

Hope this article will help those couples in a relationship to better cherish their partners. God Bless.
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Wednesday, August 30, 2006

「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 12:15 PM 」

Sex



Not difficult to catch your attention, isn’t it? This word seem to be a taboo in the past, but now it is spread almost everywhere in the country and the region. You can find it on the newspapers, magazines, internet etc. But tell me, how many of you really discuss this with your friends? I don’t think there is any.

The world has portrayed it in such a way that it is desirable to have sex, that it is good to have sex. The truth is, it is indeed a very pleasurable act, but only if you do it with your spouse. That is, after you are married. This intimacy will reach its profound level when it is done between a married couple. You see, its only when you are married, then only your heart and soul will tell you that it is alright to have sex. Then only you will not have any guilt or whatsoever. When there is no guilt or whatsoever, you reached the peak of sex. For girls, do you feel a sense of insecurity because you might be worrying if he will leave you after having what he wants. For guys, you will be worrying if the girl gets pregnant and stick to you and claims your responsibility should there be any accidents. Either that you might be wondering if she will have it with other guys since she already give it to you.

Then someone might say,What, then my partner will be so inexperienced when I got married? The thing is, sex is something so natural that not much skill is needed. EVERYONE knows how to have sex without teaching. All humans will have the basic instinct to have sex. If you really want to spice things up, consider kama sutra or whatsoever.

Or someone might say, “Come on, then do you mean that you have to die a virgin if you don’t get married?” Of course not, in the first place, you should expand your horizon to meet more people, and also to improve on your wealth and knowledge and wisdom. Then only, you know how to approach people in the right way and know how to attract people of the opposite sex.

Let’s be realistic, majority of people judge people at the first look. For guys, If you are smelly, and looked dirty in a ragged shirt, wearing flip flop slippers or have unkempt hair, don’t expect people to look at you the second glance. People will flee from you as far as they can. It all dwells to personal hygiene. If you are not that drop dead gorgeous, you can still instill a pleasant look if you know how to present yourself. Let it be a habit to be hygiene and not dress only to please someone for a moment. Once you show your tail, you scare your partner off. I believe if you are doing well in this area and also to cultivate your character, girls will stick to you.

For ladies, there are so many ways you can present yourself better. I am sure you heard of the saying, ”There is no ugly people, only lazy one”. This is so true, browse through magazines to know which types of clothes suit you, put on make up if you have less than perfect features. If you are fat, be determined to lose weight. There are so many ways to make yourself look good. I shall add on that looking good does not only attract opposite sex, it also attract people of same sex, you make more friends, feel happier.

I cannot emphasis enough that the VALUE ladies have lies in their virginity. You must know that you are priceless and the only one who deserves you to give that up is the one willing to walk with you to the rest of your life. You must learn to LOVE and RESPECT yourself before you expect others to do so. If you give in too many times, then guys will always think that you are cheap and easy to get. Ask any guys and they will tell you that. Having said that, if you happen to lose it, do not despair, just because you are fallen does not mean it’s the end. You are still priceless if you know how to protect yourself from then on.

For guys, if you really love your girlfriend, respect her in this sense. I am sure there are many ways to release the steam. Just don't harm the girl you love. Unless you are just toying with her and satisfying your own needs.

With this, I hope it will help those who are facing a dilemma in this area of life.
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Tuesday, August 29, 2006

「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 11:50 PM 」

Favoured


Today is the second day I attended care group. Before I attend the care group, I was thinking how I am going to get home. Since Agnes is not with me today, I thought I can try to walk my way home. Hmm... the problem lie with my super poor sense of direction. What happen if I lost my way? Nah, I thought I will be blessed. So I just went forth with the care group.

During this care group, there is this guy who arrived the last. He looked like he is in this late teens. He had this healthy glow on his face. Anyway, the care group begin with the usual sharing and stuff. We later eat the food that is prepared. Oh saying about food, I actually prepared mango pudding. But somehow I actually put it into the wrong container that the pudding are smashed once I arrived. Therefore, its now presented on the table. Oh well, its a pity though, I used expensive fresh mango. Anyway, its all right, its the thought that counts.

Now, now, I certainly received undeserved favour, this guy asked where I lived. Then I said Yishun. Then he said, then maybe I can give you a lift. I was like, huh? you give me a lift, as in taxi huh? Then he said, "No la, I drive". Guessed what? He is not in his late teens! He is in this late twenties! Can you imagine? He looked so young and boyish. I believed hearing The WORD can really make one young. I borrow a few CDCs from him too. And yes, I am sent home just believing I don't have to worry about my way home. PTL!
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Sunday, August 27, 2006

「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 10:46 PM 」

Love


I was left alone for a period of time. Somehow, I felt very empty, felt my time is wasted. Then I do something, that is, to go to church alone. All alone, its either that someone accompanys me there or I won't go. Either that, I am very conscious of what my friend will think of me when I go with a friend that I restrict my thoughts and actions. But recently, I listened to each and every word of the message. And I mean LISTEN not just HEAR.

I forgot how many weeks back I done this, until I found myself changing TOTALLY! When I first did this, I thought I wanted something to spend time since I got nothing better to do. Until suddenly, I realised I found love. Pure true love. Something I NEVER experience before in my entire life. Its much stronger than the love which exists between my boyfriend or whatsoever. Suddenly, I realised I have love and compassion. I never realised that, until Vanessa tells me. What I am experiencing, is compassion and love.

Whoever knows me, knows I used to hate children. Hate them to the core. But now, I am suprised, greatly suprised, that I love them. When I see some kids running in front of me. I felt the urge to protect them. Can you imagine that? The more I attend church, the more the sense of love flows through me that it is overpowering. I begin to care more about the people around me, their health, their well being, their woes, the joys. I felt compassion. I can tell who are those which need compassion exactly at just one glance. I have received undeserved wisdom to know who are pretending. I know exactly who is pretending.

One shortcoming I always have in the past. Patience. I really lack that in the past. When someone blocks my way, I will get fairly irritated. Now I realised that I will just stop and wait if I felt the need to. All these things I experienced are all intangible. People cannot see them, but I had experienced them myself.

Previously, I just say I am a Christian. But I don't really have much faith. I don't feel like doing the things which are good. Now I can tell you, naturally I want to do do. Its just like I got some prompting inside me to ask me to do good. My faith is as strong as rock. The exact feelings I felt is never once felt before. I realised all the transformation only happened when I attend church. Its like when I seek for His Word, his love and power overflow in me.

My perception of a relationship also changes. My parther must be a Christian, one who is a strong believer. Only then, he will be on par thinkings as me, have the same beliefs I hold, felt the same way I felt, have the same purpose as I have. And I know success, health and wealth will follow us where ever we go. Only then, I will feel true love with him, because now, I have love for everyone.
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Fear


A familiar feeling? This is the fear of the unknown. And worse, the fear of what is apparently known, twisted by misperceptions. Last time, I used to be so frightened by cats that seeing on one from afar can make me scream at the top of my lungs. You either expect me to stand on the chair or run away from my desk if any cats will to sit beside me. When you are experiencing fear, your brain send out signals to make you on a flight state. However, you ask yourself, do you feel good this way? I bet not. Your heart pounders very heart, you go into cold sweat, and not able to enjoy your meal. All because of the word 'fear'. Even if you are on a holiday at Tioman where the environment and food are perfect except for a few cats, you ruined your own day.

Is the senario familiar? Or small and simple worry or fear like, I wonder if it will rain when I go out. Or how will he feel about you after you came back from a date? And there you think and think, worry and worry. All these are unknowningly a fear which you are not aware of. Then you may think, and realise there are so many things you are fearful of.

Fear of rejection also prevents you from making new friends. Ever seen a person you feel like approaching? Go ahead, just talk to the person. Be it the opposite sex or same sex. If you feel like speaking to that person, JUST GO AHEAD! Don't worry whether the person will feel that you are pretencious or fake or what so ever. Who knows at the end you will make a new found friend. Then maybe now you realise why Christians are so friendly. Ever been to a church, then you realise everyone seem so fake like they smile and hug and whatsoever? Well, now you know.

If only we learn to enjoy yourself at the very moment and not worry about what will be happening next, we will be sooooo much happier. And I am not kidding, its SO much happier. If you are waiting for someone, just get something to enjoy. Be it a magazine, or listening to your MP3 or whatsoever. Instead of whining,"Goosh, that woman is ALWAYS LATE!" And felt all the anger rushing through making you lose your cool. But of course, if that person is CONSTANTLY late, then better be clever la. Arrive late as well. Haha.

For me, fear is almost a stranger. I don't have as much fear as I used to because I strongly believe that I am blessed.
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Saturday, August 26, 2006

「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 10:57 PM 」

Enjoy yourself


Cool man, I am now a dealer for Diamond Energy Water after passing through that interview I went today. For those of you who knows me, know that I am so much into health lately. Somehow, I hope to help people who may be sick or are sick without themselves knowing it. After browsing through all the books, internet, newspapers and magazines, I finally came out with one easy way out to solve people's problem in the easy way. This thing I am going to share is something which is so commonly heard of, so commonly used of and in fact you have to consume it everyday. One can live without food for a couple of days, but without this thing, one cannot survive past 3 days. And you are right, its water.

Many of us never know that the water contained in our tap water is not good for our health. In fact, all of today's sickness and disease are caused partly by water. Some people don't enjoy the water they are drinking. They may enjoy ice lemon tea, green tea and carbonated drinks. In their minds they may be thinking ice lemon tea is better than carbonated drinks. But have you ever thought if it is better than water? If you were to be consicous of the amount of spendings you spent each day for drinks, you will be amazed the amount you spent per month. Let's be conservative in our calculations: say 2 ice lemon tea at $1.20 each day will cost you $72 each month! Which means to say in one year you will be spending $864! Suprised at the amount of money you spent? Well, at least I am.

Now, think of it this way, if you were to replace this amount of money you spent on water, think the amount of money you will save in the future! Then some people will say, " Water got no taste, I don't enjoy it!" Now, now, now... here is the best part, the water actually tastes better due to its essential minerals. Not convinced? There is even a 120 days free trial and money back gurantee if you are not satisfied!

You see, boiling water only removes some bacteria but not the fluoride and chloride and other chemicals gathered along the way through the pipes. There are too many harmful effects of those chemicals to state and will only share with those interested. I strongly recommend those who are having some health problems to try this out. I am willing to meet up and explain further if you believe its going to benefit and help you. If not, just take that you never read that part and blissfully enjoy your water or whatsoever.

Back to enjoying yourself, met up with Vivien and Agnes today. Being a health consicous me also know who to enjoy and appreciate the good food in life occasionally. I eat out daily until I am really sick of the common food that others enjoy. Only unique and well brewed ones attract me. We went to Geylang, a stall along beside Lorong 13 to enjoy the Bak Ku Teh. Goosh, you must see the crowd around there man! Fortunately, we chopped few seats. Haha. Here is the picture I took.

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The meat is so tender that just using one chopstick and I can remove the flesh. There is this tofu skin which is so tasty. The soup tastes a mild tonic and of course perfectly matched with vegetables. Of course, such luxury should come once in a while to pamper yourself. Eaten too often and not only it does your body no good, but also you don't enjoy it as much.

We appreciated and enjoyed the durians at Geylang too. Wow, the durians there seem to be all sweet. No matter what colour bright or light yellow all taste great. When its time to enjoy, whack it! Don't worry about the amount of calories you are gaining for you girls. Afterall, its not often you are doing that. Now note that I don't mean eat it frequently, but say once or twice a month. I gurantee you won't get fat because of that. If you do, then it must be some other things you done or have not done.

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Satisfied us heading home. Yummy... Blurp! (Oh no...I don't blurp... tts not me... Haha)
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Anyway, hope you people learn how to enjoy food correctly. Do not over indulge but do be consicous of what you put into your body be it food or water. Afterall, its your body you are taking care of which is going to be with you for the rest of your lives. God Bless.
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Friday, August 25, 2006

「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 12:07 PM 」

Working life…Tough? No.


I would like to just share my working life and experience at Tranxxxxx with you. These are my lessons I learnt in the hard way and now I shall share it with you so that you don’t have to go through the pain I gone through at work.

I remembered my time at Tranxxxxx, a travel agency was a painful yet meaningful one. The boss, Mr A(not nice to mention names) was a stressful and yet knowledgeable one. He totally freaked me out during my stay with him for attachment purpose in the initial months. It scared me so much that I had nightmares about going to work and even had a fear in male managers when I just left the company.

One thing I do have to admit is that I learnt a lot from him about work and business. From advertising, to handling of people, to negotiating with clients and to operations to whatever you name it. And he chooses people to teach and work on the condition that you have to get all the shit from him. If he finds that a particular person not being able to take the scoldings, he won’t even talk or interact with the person. This happened to one person who took over me after I left.

Now, here is the first lesson that I am going to share. If you happen to have a inbalanced superior who always seemed to pick on you or scold you. Never take his harsh words on you! If he scolds you a cunning fox, pretend that he himself is a fox screaming at you. You will laugh at the thought of it and won’t even bother to feel sad about what he sprouted. Filter through all his words and extract only the valuable ones. I remembered initially I was so affected by his words that I cried in front of him! You believed that? I never cried in front of anyone else for such a long time and I cried in front of him! Its not that I want to gain sympathy or whatsoever, its just that I am so hurt at his remarks. Why? This is because I took his words too seriously. You know, sometimes when people took a lot of shit from others they tend to want to throw the shit onto you. So don’t give that scolding a damn. Just think that person has had a bad day and pardon his action on that. Well, its only after some time before I got this wisdom that make me think that way.

Secondly, if you boss reprimand YOU at work because of some mistakes you may or not have done. Just take it and say SORRY and EXPLAIN. Never push the blame on others! Bosses hate irresponsible people who push the blame on others when they felt that YOU are in the wrong. So whatever you are saying and denying he WONT LISTEN. For example, Lazy never do the work and you get scolded. So what must you say? “ Sorry, its my fault that I never remind Lazy to do the work.” I tell you, once you apologized; the boss will take his guard down of you. Then when you say it’s your fault, he will think its not you fault because it’s Lazy who never do the work. Instantly, he will realize he wronged the wrong person and will shut his trap. And there you are, case closed!

All right, that’s about my little lessonsI like to share with you people who experience any difficulty in the working life now. Afterall, work is not tough when you know how to handle things. And I am blessed because the company I am working with currently has all the nice people you can name of.
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Thursday, August 24, 2006

「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 11:41 AM 」

Relationships


If you were to realize, I seldom or never touched on the topic relationships in my blog. Today, I shall do just that. You are about to be immersed in some deep thought about my opinions in relationships.

Frankly speaking, I do have a few past relationships and a few flings. Being in a relationship is to be serious with each other, care and concern for each other, think of each other, and share thoughts and feelings. Lastly, and most importantly is to give and take. However, this has not dawned onto me until recently. In order for a relationship to really last, freedom and space is also important. We all learn along the way, some things you may be ignorant to initially, but once that thing past, when one thinks back, one realize what actually went wrong.

A relationship in which you spend too much or too little time together is an unhealthy one. If a couple tends to meet daily, they will soon run out of topics. They will take each other’s presence for granted. This is especially true if you are actually working. After a shag day working and taking all the shit, the energy left is really very little. Worse of all, what’s left is actually either negligible or negative energy. This in turn results you to throw tantrums to your partner. Nevertheless, due to woman’s inclined tendacy to speak and talk to communicate right from ancient years makes her want to talk to somebody she trusts. That is why some guys may wonder why they have to call their girlfriends everyday. If fact, most of the time, they only need a listening hear. When guys hear their girlfriends complaining, they will constantly try to think of solutions. Meanwhile, guys find it tiring because they have to keep racking their brains while girls will feel that they are not listening and interrupting. Thus, guys you only need to give solutions when they ask for it. For girls, let them know that you just need them to listen and they can share thoughts but not give solutions unless you ask for them.

In my opinion, meeting about three or four times a week is sufficient. Time spent together should be relaxing and carefree. When both of you are not deprived of energy. In that way, then only you will truly enjoy the meal you are having and enjoy shopping together.

Vice versa, spending too little time together is not right too. You see, girls tend to be emotional creatures beings. When they are detached for certain kind of communication for prolonged time, they tend to feel that they are being ignored and forgotten. Couples who meet up only once a week and who don’t chat through the phone frequently usually don’t have a good understanding of each other. Let me ask you this question, would you want to chat with someone whom you meet frequently in an outing or you would chat up with a stranger whom you just say hi and bye? It goes the same way in a relationship. Chatting on the phone daily does not mean that you will run out of topics because each day there is plenty to experiences to share. On the contrary if you spend time with each other daily than there is nothing to share.

All right, I shall end my lengthy essay about relationships. Woah, I can’t believe I throw out so much at one go. =D
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Tuesday, August 22, 2006

「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 5:51 PM 」

The Chase


I cancelled my plan for the comic business I intended to set up with Vivian and gang. After calculating the profits to be earned, I reckon that the rewards are not worth my efforts. Disappointed I might be, I guessed its just as well. I can fully concentrate of my field of interest.

Anyway, some food for thought. Does anyone of you ever notice that when you are chasing some area of your life very badly and you tend to not achieve what you wish to get? But the moment you take it easy and enjoy and pursue some other things then only to realise that the things you used to pursue badly has come to you? The things you are trying to pursue is like the tail of a cat. Imagine the cat is always wanting to catch its own tail thinking that it will give him happiness. However, the more he try to catch it, the more it will move away from him. Alas, once he intend to give up and pursue some other greater things, the tail follows him wherever he goes.

Life is something like that, I learn to realise that by pursuing greater things, other smaller things will STICK to follow you wherever you go. By then, the smaller things which you deem very important in past is just a by-product for your pursuing of greater things. Its just a bonus to you.
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Monday, August 21, 2006

「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 9:37 PM 」

Nonsense


You look so much happier without me.
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Zheng Yi Zhi Yan Bi Yi Zhi Yan




I like this song!
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Sunday, August 20, 2006

「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 12:53 PM 」

Let not your Heart be Troubled, neither let it be Afraid


Do that and health, prosperity and peace of mind will follow.
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Saturday, August 19, 2006

「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 11:23 PM 」

Last dance class and Business Plan


Lessons learnt for the whole class:
-Learn from one another before the class starts so as to improve each other and build relationship
-Clarify what steps that we are unsure of at the end of each lesson to prevent continous accumulation of uncertainty
-Dance without restrictions so that we can demonstrate which movement is wrong
-Listen to music repeatedly to be very clear of the beat
-Observe how teacher dance (at the pt of music where hands and legs should fall)

Whohoo~~~ today after my last lesson on shou ai ni, Vivien and me discuss about one business plan. I was so thrilled about the whole business plan. It is about creation of a comics portal. I can't believe we spent about 3 hours plus discussing about it. She is supposed to accompany me for dinner but ended up starting that conversation. We had lots of ideas and thoughts on feasibility going on. It was so fun discussing about the ideas because just a thought we are going to make money thrilled us so much. I really LOVE business man! God Bless.
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Thursday, August 17, 2006

「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 11:34 PM 」

Happiness
Have you ever thought what makes you happy? Is it having lots of money? Or is it having the one you love? Or is it having good looks? Or is it having lots of friends. If thats the case, maybe you may realise that you don't get happiness now because you haven't attained what you thought would give you happiness. Even when you really have attained it, you would want more and more. The end result is that you are never happy.

Have you noticed that children are always so much in happiness? They can be quarrelling like anything else in one moment, and yet they can be happily playing with one another the next moment. You give them a bamboo and they can make circles with it, you put them in rain and they will dance in the rain having lots of laughter and fun. But when it comes to adults, we have to even think before we laugh. Like when you hear a joke, you will have to see if others laugh before you laugh. Its all because we have lost the touch of the ability to go with the flow.

Along the years, we tend to not enjoy every moment we have. We tend to worry for the future, for tomorrow, for the coming event, for your bf/ gf, for the money etc. Even if the most expensive dish is placed in front of you, you would not have enjoyed it because you fear of many other things. Learn to enjoy and appreciate simple things. When you are with your bf/ gf, try to spend quality time with him/ her and forget about other worries like money shortage etc. Even if you worry, it would not be of any help because nothing is going to change but you have wasted time together.

For me, I used to think I would be happy if I bought a new shopping item. Yes, indeed I will be happy, but its only for that instant. The happiness does not last very long. However, recently, I realised that helping others and seeing them feeling really happy, gives me happiness right from the heart. It lasts so long, the feeling is so good. This which I never thought I would feel before. I never thought that helping others will give me happiness. Of course, I don't really mean all those beggers or whoever who go around begging for money. I don't know about you, but I know there really are some fakers who go around begging so pitifully and yet behind our backs, they can be so mean to others.

Example will be an indian Lady selling tissue papers at Somerset. She always sell tissue papers and acted until so pitifully at the traffic junction. But once my friend who used to work at This Fashion, got to taste her meaness when she wanted to buy some clothes for her child. That Indian lady threw the whole lot of coins onto the counter and demanded her to count and get her child a clothes.

Of course, I won't say all are like that, there are truely some who are needy of help. I believe if your really want to help others, instead of giving those faslies or whatsoever, its better that you donate your money to some charity organisations who will in turn benefit the needy.

Recently, I won't feel good if I see people not feeling well or feeling sad.I felt its my duty to help them as long as its within my means. Just like when one of my supervisor got sick, I felt that I should do something to make her happy. I bought watermelon juice knowing she had cough and fever. Upon seeing the drink, she was so delighted but paid me back the money. But for that moment, she wanted badly a drink like that. I felt happy whenever I thought of it. I did many other things and seeing people happy, I would be happy too. It doesn't have to be in monetary terms. Some simple small gestures and you can see smiles around you.

Simple pleasures like smelling something good. When wonderful smell of food lingers into my nose. I am sure many of you have the luxury of mothers whipping delicious meals for you. But have you ever stopped to think how fortunate you are? Or walking hand in hand with your beloved along the beach/ park? Enjoy the moment, every single second that worth remembering and treasured will give you happiness. God Bless.
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Wednesday, August 16, 2006

「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 3:51 PM 」

Good things happen


Just when Jacqueline informed me that her friend is joining her for lunch, my supervisor wanted to treat me for lunch. We went all the way to Sunshine Plaza to buy some flowers. Before that, we ate to our fill at one of the tim sum store. Soon after we went to Raffles City to get fresher green orchids.

A lot of preparation is required for the farewell dinner of Ambassodor Hugh Swift. The dinner involves many directors and professors who gathered in memorial of Brother McNally Joseph. Just the running of the dvd and I have to ask Talip for help several times. Needed his help to bring all the items down to the Glass Hall. Nora also helped me in this. I suppose all these are good things happening. I don't have to struggle to carry so many things down myself but got helpful ones to help me. Everything run rather smoothly throughout the event.

Prof Tommy Koh is really a nice chap. He came to express his apology of us skipping our meals several times. Just from his eyes I can sense his sincerity. Anywhere, good things always happen. God Bless.
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Thursday, August 10, 2006

「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 11:02 PM 」

There, there, there...if you were to realise... I CHANGE MY BLOGSKIN!!! This is my first creation. (Past = C&P)

Gone is the Past
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RENEW!!! New beginnings from now on!!!

After struggling with the very simple archive feature, I finally got my code right with the wonderful help of Agnes. All the people I asked were unable to give me a definite answer of creating the archive. Sometimes I think I really have to simplify things. Its actually so easy, yet I thought it to be so complicated and even doubt the simplicity of it. Whahaha...anyyway, the feeling of finally accomplishing something of your own creation is just so great.

From now on, my blog will be a sharing portal for those who are interested in looking good- you guess it right- its about health. So my dear friends or normal friends or visitors, do leave me some comments on what you think of my entries. Help me improve so that I can help you look good. Thanks...Tata....
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Tuesday, August 08, 2006

「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 11:57 PM 」

Its been ages since we all met up with Winnie and Agnes. Winnie's bf tag along as usual. Dinner at Chen Fa Live Seafood was indeed a smelly one. Initially VV warned us that we better keep our jackets or whatsoever into our bags because its going to be real smelly. I thought it was such an exaggeration. I understood what VV meant at the end of the day. Its been a long time since I came to Marina Bay's stretch of seafood resturant. The last time I remembered was when I was at Year. Those were the really happy days where our class was united and happening. Almost 15 people turned up that time. Anyway, the food at Chen Fa Live Seafood is still the best despite it making you smellier compared to other resturants due to its higher patronage. I love the char siew there. Simply lovely, different from outside food. The funny thing was that four of us don't eat seafood in a seafood resturant! Just like eating chicken chop without eating the chicken. But the other side dishes at the resturant tasted just as fine to me. Its only the stench I got that will deter me from returning.

Halfway through our meals, fireworks exploded throughout one corner of the sky. All the people rushed out to view the spectacular sight. It is slightly enjoyable compared to National Day Preview. But somehow, I just find something lacking. THe problem doesn't lie with the fireworks...


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Monday, August 07, 2006

「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 11:42 PM 」

Here is the dance I learnt:

Shou Ai Ni




Here is the dance I refuse to learn coz its too advanced:

Wu Nai


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Met up for reheasal with my dance parthners. Not supposed to have class today, so we rent the dance room for $20.

Took some photos:


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Saturday, August 05, 2006

「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 1:38 PM 」

Its been quite a long time since I didn't really meet up with friends. We had our dinner at The Soup Spoon at Raffles City. There are many people rushing for the seats. Business seemed very good surprisingly. I still remembered the one at Raffles Place is so empty. I bought mushroom soup together with a bun while YJ bought chicken stew. Roy also bought the same as me except he ordered another sandwich. Roy just book out from army. He told me Colin was the same bunk as him concidentally. He said that Colin wanted to join us at first but Roy don't know if I was comfortable with that. Anyway, from what Roy had said, it seem rather tough being at BMT. Surprisingly many things I never heard of. Like how they have to sleep in the tent which is shorter than 1 metre and even have some rocks beneath them. We chatted about what is happening in our lives.

Soon, we realised many people surrounding us and we guessed we have to change venue. We came by Starbucks while Roy bought a drink. YJ even mentioned about the guy who got 20 over distinctions because she knows him. Before I heard all those stuff I would thought he is talented with so such good scores. Turned out that he is a bum in other areas. I suppose people who got too much IQ wont have good EQ. They were always be claimed as weird in others people's eyes. They tend to be arrogant because of their fantastic results. Having said that, there are also people who got excellent EQ and IQ- just like AK. We had a nice, long chat which I haven had one in quite a long time. We laughed and all.

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