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Judgemental
Finally exams are over, so here I am back to blogger to my wonderful readers. Sorry to make you people click over at my blog to find no updates.
Well, back to the topic I like to share my thought about. Somehow, I find it so easy to fall into judging someone. I myself still trying to do less of that, compared to the past I would say is much lesser. Nevertheless, I still do so at times.
Ever come across a situation when you are purchasing some stuff at supermarkets and the staff there pull a sulky face to serve you? Then in your heart you thought how rude they can be and so impolite, aunties are aunties... (or something similar?) Oh ok, maybe you all don't, only me. Well, last time I used to hate that, and by thinking all the above stuff I am kinda of judging them. But I realised that if I will to think in their perspective having to serve so many hundreds of customers doing the same thing, I too will have that kind of feeling.
So one way for me to not judge a person too fast is to put myself into the person's shoes. To say is easy, but when you are really meeting such situations you would really take a while to really change your mindset and react the self controlled way- thank the cashier despite the bad service.
Every too often we judge things, be it based on appearance or be it hearsay. Certain anchors are planted into one's mind if rumour is strong enough. Indeed, this habit is constantly appearing in my life and I am sure most of you. Like when you happen to talk to someone and behind your mind, you might already analysis what a person this person is and so and so. But then again, when we think of how come the behaviour of the person different from us mostly like due to environmental influence. Different people have different environments and we cannot expect them to have the same thinking at the start.
Judging someone is what almost everyone almost subconsciously do. I felt that instead of judging someone, should change to understanding someone by their behaviour. And this, require a skill. Judge not if you don't want to be judge.
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