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Fate and Destiny
Have we ever thought what is fate and what is destiny? I tell you how I define it. Fate is something in which we cannot change. Example can we choose to be borne to be a rich man's child or to be borne in a poor family? No. We cannot choose and there is no way we can choose. But, we can actually choose to change our destiny. Destiny is how we design our life to be. If you design it to be successful,it will be successful, and if you design it to be dull, it will be dull.
Many people live according to their fate and not willing to change their own destiny. Either they never try or tried and gave up. And in the end, they just end up to become a face in the crowd. Many people just live life as it is. Not willing to come out of their comfort zone. They felt that as long as they are not in need, then its all right. People felt that they will forever be what they are borne. If they are borne poor, they allow themselves to be poor all their lives. Why? Because they have this image in their minds that they are poor people and the thought of being rich never strike across them.And even if there are such thoughts, they will just brush them away.
Just what is designing destiny? Let me illustrate, the Wright Brothers were just ordinary people working as bicycle repairman. But did they just let it remain that way? NO! They had dreams,they dreamt of one day being able to fly like the birds in the sky. Did they just day dream? Absolutely not, they experiments and inmitate the way a bird fly and finally after numberous failures created the aeroplane. Dear friends, the meaning you choose to give to your life is the meaning you create. Your life can be designed. Successful people succeed not because its a concidence, they designed it. Has not Adam Khoo designed his plan to become a millionaire at age 26?
Many a times, people are comfortable with their lives because of the lack of dreams. When we were young, we will fantasize all sorts of things. But when we gets older, we lose our imagination. We replaced wonderful imaginations with worries. Instead of imaging how good our life will be, we imagine how bad it will be. What you think is what you get. Your mind controls your speech, your speech controls your actions. Thats explain why people always get what they dread the most.
Destiny is meant for us to change. And changing it takes a lot of actions. Without actions, a thought will always be a thought. As what the bible says " In all labour there is profit. But idle chatter leads only to proverty".
There, live your life. Each of us only have one life. Whether or not its going to be interesting or dull lies in your hands. Do not let others control your life.
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