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I was thinking since I have an entry on men, might as well have one for women. Actually women can be easy to understand too. In fact, personally I think they are very easy to coax. You see, woman have this soft side inside them. Some of them may try to hide it trying to act tough to hide that softness in them so that they do not get bullied. Whereas some women just show their sofeness because they find it hard to act tough.
Sometimes they may appear cool because they are not sure of how you feel towards them. In this modern days, girls need a lot of face. They do not express openly how they feel towards you in fear that she may lose face. Having said that, there are also women who cannot hide their expressiveness. They just express almost the same to all people as long as they do not dislike them. But they will be ultra sweet to their already loved ones. I suppose I belong to the second type.
Woman are actually very easily coax when they are angry. Woman goes by emotions. Man goes by logical thinking. They can get angry very fast, but they can actually cool down very fast too if you know how. Ever met an incident when you guys suddenly said something and she got pissed off leaving you pondering what you had said wrongly? You do not realise that because you go with thinking while she goes with her heart. She felt angry because she is aroused by EMOTIONS while you are left confused because you react by THINKING what you had done wrong. The easy way out is to feel for her. Just take her by her both arms gently and look into her eyes and tell her how you felt. She must need to feel what you are feeling to connect with you. Talking and shouting is of NO USE! If you succeed in making her realise that you FEEL for her, then you are there already.
What woman want when they are angry is just that he will coax her. Doing that, shows a long way that he cares for her. And thinking that allowing her to cool down is just the wrong way out. I tell you why. All the while when she is angry with you, she will be waiting anxiously so that you can coax her. She will call to all her friends to complain about you. (Opps, many girls are going to scold me for revealing this. But nvm, because I am also helping them indirectly)And the longer you take to coax her, the MORE people will know. Haha. It only portrays that you did not bother. That she means nothing to you. Okay, lets say you already managed to talk to her after you THOUGHT that she has cool down. But one thing you did not know, is that the duration you take to coax her sinks deeply into her heart.
She might not show that she is angry with you. But deep down, there is such a scar. If repeatedly done and one day you will just lose her. As you can see, woman is so easy to understand. Much easier than man. I am teaching you guys such stuff so that you can have a better and lasting relationships with your loved ones. And I am going to put a curse to this teaching so that casanovas do not abuse this truth. If you guys (cansanovas) are going to use this trick, let you suffer retribution.
Anyway, my words to females. Boyfriends/ husbands are there for you to be sweet to. Do handle them tenderly too. If possible, try not to raise your voice with them. Do not take them for granted. Guys always go soft when you speak tenderly to them. No point screaming at them to do something. It will NEVER get into their ears because it is just not way they want to hear.
All right, enjoy your time with your loved ones with these tips.
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