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Name: Amy
Country: Singapore
Birthday: 7th March 1986
Gender: Female
Interests: asian food/ good movies/ reading good books/ bargain shopping/ God/ make-up/ magazines/ taking pics/ design/ blogging/ice-cream/ good ole-fashioned love/ business/ new experience/ health/ mtv dancing/ beauty/ fruits
Expertise: Health & Beauty
Occupation:Financial Consultant
Affiliation: New Creation Church
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Singapore Institue of Management
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For those who visit my blog regularly will realise that I lacked inspiration for three days. Not really lack though, its just I have no time to express my ideas since I am seeking for other things.
Anyway, my entry today is about finding your partner. I believed many of us will always say things like," I want my future boyfriend to be handsome, tall, intelligent, humourous and romantic and have great fashion sense" if you are a girl and "I want my future girlfriend to be pretty, kind, sweet, have great inner beauty and caring." Then at the back of our hearts somehow you feel that what we expect will not be what we have. Sounds familiar?
Hmmm...I come to realise one thing recently. Let me ask you a question first, will you be attracted to a person who is unkempt, short, stupid, lack humour, dull and poor fashion sense? If you are one who is just the opposite of all the traits, of course you will scream NO! That is it, if we want to attract the traits that we desire, we have to have those traits ourselves first. I am not trying to be mean, but have you walk along the streets and see that a couple who looked ugly (just because they both do not like to dress up) and of the same kind- thick specs, unkempt eyebrows and hair, face with many many red pimples, blackheads, plain t shirts and pants. And have you see glamourous couple with styled hair, trimmed eyebrows(not guys, they ought to be thick for them), flawless complexion, matching clothes. In short, you attract person that looks like you.
Having, said that, of course exceptions occur. As in, when you are still naive and not sure what you one and just testing out the feeling of being in a relationship, then you just go for feelings. One thing I must warn, feelings change. No matter how strong it is, one day, it will change if you do not guard your heart.
Appearance does not really matter as long as the person is dilligent enough to maintain their image. The inside of the person is the most important. It is easy to judge how graceful a person is, by his/ her actions. A man may open the door for a lady and send her home, but may only have the intention of leaving a good impression for the lady. Whereas a true gentleman will do all these out of the pure intention of knowing that she is a weaker vessel and ensuring her safety. A lady may speak sweetly during the first few dates but when deeper into the relationship, she might just scream at the man as and when she fancy.
Now comes my bias judgement once again. Personally, from the many guys I meet, those who are non-Christians, they tend to create a false front. They will do some things within their comfort zone to please a lady, but once over their comfort zone, they will back off hoping that she forgets about the incident. Whereas Christian guys of strong faith tend to sincerely serve people out to please the Lord. They will treat people around them well especially their loved ones. Therefore, I believe non-Christian guys are only suitable to be friends. Help each other in times of need. And even though I might be eager to help, maybe they might just ignore my help once they know they cannot get me. Somehow, fellowship is difficult to forge with them.
All right, end of my bias comparision. Whatever it is, find someone who you think suits you. Find someone whom you find easy to forge fellowship and has the same frequency as you. Find someone who has the dilligence to maintain their looks like you. In this way, the similarities bond the both of you resulting in lasting relationships. Vice versa if you think you just want a fling.
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