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Its been a few days since I last blog. I have been busy lately joining HY and his care group friends to The Rock and attended care group of my own. Oh man, the fellowship is awesome. The people I met are all happy, energetic yet sensitive and caring at the same time.
Anyway, back to topic. People self- destruct for a reason. They have hatred in themselves. They have guilt and condemnation in them. Deep in their hearts they felt that they have done wrong, but in order to cover that up, they blame others. More often then not, they blame those who are closest to them, be it their partner, their brothers, or sisters. They may felt that no one love them anymore. In this case, if you happen to know such a person, the only thing that you can do is to show your love towards the person. Yet if you yourself do not love yourself, how do you expect your love to overflow to others?
In their hearts, there are struggling to be set free. They resort to ways they thought can set them free, like alcohol or cigarettes. Alcohol can temporary create a “high” sensation and temporary enable a person to forget about their worries. Cigarettes make a person feel relax and at ease. However, they are not aware that cigarettes is that effective not because of the tobacco, but because of the deep breathing involved. If one will to ever try to replace the cigarette with a pen and perform the deep inhalation one is doing while smoking, he will experience the same effect.
Consuming alcohol will only add to your sorrows. At that instance when you drink it, you will experience great pleasure after which. You will uncontrollably be smiling and even laughing giving you the impression of happiness. You will have the guts to do things you don’t usually do like dancing wildly. Sometimes, you are not even aware of it. Frankly speaking, I experience it all. When the dosage of alcohol is too high for you to take it, you will do things without yourself realizing it. I must say it is very dangerous especially for ladies but fortunately because of my protective friends like Susan and Huey, I am fine and well the next day. What I mean is that all these symptoms are not signs of real happiness. In the end, you still end up feeling empty and depressed.
What really fills up my heart like nothing else I ever experience is the walk with God. My spirit is filled whenever I go to church. My strength is renewed whenever I feed on His Word. He enlightens me in areas of life with I have doubts about. Be it on relationships or education or working life. He gives me life and life more abundantly.
Yet there are some people who take the extremes of extremes to make them feel that they have no other way left except to turn to God. What I mean extremes of extremes is such that they might take on drugs, alcohol, cigarette, go through smuggling to get money for more of that and eventually ended up in prison. And worse still for another loss of a dear one before they realize that God is always by their side without them knowing it. Then only they realize how blessed they are. He has blessed us with so many other things but it seem that we only know how focus on the negative side of life and ended up blessing the negative side of life causing it to multiply.
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