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「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 10:12 AM 」
Men
I got a lot of insights on men. Actually, they are really pretty to easy to understand I realized. They like chasing for things they do not have and take things that they have for granted. But this do not apply to one category of men which you will find out later.
This behavior began when they are kids. When they are aim for a toy in a shopping centre, they will plead and plead with their parents to get him that. When they finally receive that, they will rush to play with the toy eagerly. But given a while, they got bored with it and lose attention with it. Now, now, let’s say another boy saw interest in that toy; this boy will go all the way out to fight it back. So from here you can see, grown up guys are like the same. They like to chase girls, but when they finally got them, and when the girls are so into them, they lose interest. But if he finds out that other man are wooing her, he will go all ways to win her back.
This clearly explains why in so many relationships around the world, we keep hearing girlfriends complaining that their boyfriends do not treat them as good as before. And the men will always tell them, “that time is when I am pursuing you and want to know you better ma, now we already so close le, no need to do such things one ma.” Then although the man still love her, but they do not show their love (actions and behavior), leaving the girl wondering if he have other girl or that he do not love her.
Either that, men will think,” I realize that my passion for her gone le leh. I got no feel for her liao. How ah?” But the truth is that you must do the first works to feel the first feelings. The passion is always there, it is just that men do not cultivate it. They can say,” no need one la.” No need! And then the next moment men realize is that they are aiming some other woman doing the first works (movies, romantic dinner). And they just said NO NEED. Men will realize that when they flirt with woman, the woman will always appear beautiful.
One thing I realize recently. I found out that STRONG Christian guys are unlike the guys in the world. They have got the pure values in their hearts. They know how to love their girlfriends/ wives, family, friends, strangers. It is that quality that makes them so unbelievably attractive no one in the earthy world has. Because they have faith, they do not doubt the ONE they choose. Once they found the right girl for them, they go all the way out to love the person. And if they have not found the right girl, they will wait until the right girl appears irregardless of the time they have to wait. Of course, this type of guys usually has lots of female friends because they are irresistibly attractive remember?
This also explains why my ex-boyfriend can be pretty romantic out of the blue.
With this, I hope you men who have got a girlfriend to treat them nice and romantic every time you can. If you do not feel like doing so, it only proves that you do not love her. And if you do not love her, what is the point of being together? Just to pass time? Come on wake up, there are many other things more important than relationships like career and health and family.
2 Blessed Comments
2 Comments:
haha.. here's my comment again... I would say to a certain extent, I do agree your posting, on how many will treat girls before and after.
To me, in relationship, there are a lot kind of combination that exist around. And not all end up the way u describe above.
If u really want to talk about BGR, i would just say that its never ending. Simply bcos, first there's a large difference between men and women... and not to mention the different characteristic every individual has. So each combination of a couple will bring about different story to tell...
To a certain extent, wont u agree too that women will also "fight" to win the heart of his love ones too if there's another competitor too??? hehez... anyway, there's a lot of different perspective to be discussed.
One thing i absolutely agree, is to love the partner the right way, showing care, love and concern. If not, being in a relationship is a waste of time.
this must be the longest comment ever received...haha...
Thanks for this longest comment received.Haha. Actually I believe it is the difference between men and women which makes them a union. It is a woman's gentleness that attract man and a man's manly behaviour that attract woman. We should not try to change the other party's way of doing something. Instead, we should respect each other's differences.
And of course, I do agree that woman have to fight to win the heart of her loved ones but in a subtle way altogether. Its just not right for a lady to chase a guy like what a guy does to chase a lady.
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