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Just as I thought I got no "food" for you lovely people who are reading my blog, an inspiration got into my mind while I was washing the dishes. Uh-huh, so washing the dishes also allows ideas to pop by. So better go wash dishes. Haha... just kidding.
Anyway, speaking of bragging, do you realise that usually the successful don't brag, neither they put others down? Take for example, a author might have very good sales in his copies, and although the title may seem that he is bragging, you open the book, and will realise he give thanks to those who had helped him. He gives credit to mentor and also to the team which bring to the success of it. For the simple reason, no one man can succeed without the help of others.
However, there are some who seriously wanted to motivate themselves or others therefore they tell people of their plans. To make sure they get their asses working on their plans. Having said so, there are some people who for no reason brag about themselves. And when people do praise them, they might pretend to deny that it is their efforts that they do well, but in their hearts, they thought the whole world of themselves. This is what pride is formed. Soon, they will be proud and not humble. They will forget who is the ones that bring success to finished work. In the past, I might be like that. But now, I know even if I succeed, the glory does not go to me. It goes to Him.
Speaking of speaking ill of others. Ever wonder why people will always say that they should not speak bad of others but positive ones? Well, you know something? Research have shown that in our brains, the speech central controls the whole of our nervous system. Which means to say, what you say, your body will react to it accordingly. Oh I hear some saying in their hearts,"What so I said that she is ugly and I will be ugly?" Yes, exactly, you won't turn ugly at that very instant, but if you keep saying that, soon you will be. So now everyone, better sing praises of others. Because if you say that "you are so clever," there there, you will be clever bit by bit. Of course I am not saying that you anyhow sing praises la. Just speak from you heart. If you see a ugly person, but that person has got great sense of fashion taste and is wearing a fabulous dress. Just say 'hey what a nice dress you have got1 Great taste man. There, your body will catch "Great Taste" and soon you will have great taste.
Then again, if you really happen to see someone wearing the wrong types of things. Don't speak ill behind that person.Don't say,"Oh my Goosh, can you imagine, she really have very bad sense of taste! I really wonder where her fashion taste has done to!" Just go up to him/ her (if they are considered your friends) and tell them that it should be improved. I don't mind people telling me when things go wrong. If I got my zips down, whoever come up and tell me that it is down, oh i will be thankful for that person. At least I will prevent so many more to see my zips down! Now, now now, I am not asking you to go around critizing people's dressing. You tell them if you know how to solve their solutions. Don't just critise and make people feel bad about themselves. Those who speaks ill of others and worry that word will spread to that particular person's hears. As you see, no one blames you for speaking bad things, you yourself subconsciously blames yourself.
Hmm... I must say I am blessed. I must say that my friends I am having are those who speak well of others. They seldom speak ill of others. Even if they do, its when they lose their cool and had said it unintentionally or had had a real bad day. And if you happen to catching me speaking ill of others, then better remind me the speech system control the whole system. Therefore, when we don't gossip, ideas come out. Yeah, I got a few fantastic friends who got business ideas coming out for them. And of course, I also have. And of course, if you happen to have any business ideas and need a partner, you can consider finding me. I am open to ideas but will still work out on the profitability of the idea and gauge if we should go ahead with them.
With this, I hope you appreciate all the good things and people happening around you.
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Amazing essay u have there... what a long one too... if there's something that we can work out in the business sense.. sure will seek help from you ..heez...
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