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Name: Amy
Country: Singapore
Birthday: 7th March 1986
Gender: Female
Interests: asian food/ good movies/ reading good books/ bargain shopping/ God/ make-up/ magazines/ taking pics/ design/ blogging/ice-cream/ good ole-fashioned love/ business/ new experience/ health/ mtv dancing/ beauty/ fruits
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If you were to realize, I seldom or never touched on the topic relationships in my blog. Today, I shall do just that. You are about to be immersed in some deep thought about my opinions in relationships.
Frankly speaking, I do have a few past relationships and a few flings. Being in a relationship is to be serious with each other, care and concern for each other, think of each other, and share thoughts and feelings. Lastly, and most importantly is to give and take. However, this has not dawned onto me until recently. In order for a relationship to really last, freedom and space is also important. We all learn along the way, some things you may be ignorant to initially, but once that thing past, when one thinks back, one realize what actually went wrong.
A relationship in which you spend too much or too little time together is an unhealthy one. If a couple tends to meet daily, they will soon run out of topics. They will take each other’s presence for granted. This is especially true if you are actually working. After a shag day working and taking all the shit, the energy left is really very little. Worse of all, what’s left is actually either negligible or negative energy. This in turn results you to throw tantrums to your partner. Nevertheless, due to woman’s inclined tendacy to speak and talk to communicate right from ancient years makes her want to talk to somebody she trusts. That is why some guys may wonder why they have to call their girlfriends everyday. If fact, most of the time, they only need a listening hear. When guys hear their girlfriends complaining, they will constantly try to think of solutions. Meanwhile, guys find it tiring because they have to keep racking their brains while girls will feel that they are not listening and interrupting. Thus, guys you only need to give solutions when they ask for it. For girls, let them know that you just need them to listen and they can share thoughts but not give solutions unless you ask for them.
In my opinion, meeting about three or four times a week is sufficient. Time spent together should be relaxing and carefree. When both of you are not deprived of energy. In that way, then only you will truly enjoy the meal you are having and enjoy shopping together.
Vice versa, spending too little time together is not right too. You see, girls tend to be emotional creatures beings. When they are detached for certain kind of communication for prolonged time, they tend to feel that they are being ignored and forgotten. Couples who meet up only once a week and who don’t chat through the phone frequently usually don’t have a good understanding of each other. Let me ask you this question, would you want to chat with someone whom you meet frequently in an outing or you would chat up with a stranger whom you just say hi and bye? It goes the same way in a relationship. Chatting on the phone daily does not mean that you will run out of topics because each day there is plenty to experiences to share. On the contrary if you spend time with each other daily than there is nothing to share.
All right, I shall end my lengthy essay about relationships. Woah, I can’t believe I throw out so much at one go. =D
3 Blessed Comments
3 Comments:
Like what you said, relationship is about give and take. My way of dealing with relationships? Communication.
Communication is the key to HOW to to give and take.
In actual fact, communication is the fundamental factor for peaceful human interactions (or so I strongly believe).
Communication is not about solely talking but listening too. Learning the art of listening can improve our relationships tremendously.
With communication comes understanding of personality, personal preference, living habits, and so on.
I ain't gonna rag on because it's an endless topic. Let's just say that Mars and Venus need to understand and adapt to each other to live happily ever after (if there's even such a thing).
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8:50 PM
You are writing some interesting issue and topics lately hor...hehez.... not bad not bad...
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12:34 AM
Haha... thanks so much... you are the first one to say that... SO HAPPY...But these are all inspired by THE ONE.
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