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Happiness Have you ever thought what makes you happy? Is it having lots of money? Or is it having the one you love? Or is it having good looks? Or is it having lots of friends. If thats the case, maybe you may realise that you don't get happiness now because you haven't attained what you thought would give you happiness. Even when you really have attained it, you would want more and more. The end result is that you are never happy.
Have you noticed that children are always so much in happiness? They can be quarrelling like anything else in one moment, and yet they can be happily playing with one another the next moment. You give them a bamboo and they can make circles with it, you put them in rain and they will dance in the rain having lots of laughter and fun. But when it comes to adults, we have to even think before we laugh. Like when you hear a joke, you will have to see if others laugh before you laugh. Its all because we have lost the touch of the ability to go with the flow.
Along the years, we tend to not enjoy every moment we have. We tend to worry for the future, for tomorrow, for the coming event, for your bf/ gf, for the money etc. Even if the most expensive dish is placed in front of you, you would not have enjoyed it because you fear of many other things. Learn to enjoy and appreciate simple things. When you are with your bf/ gf, try to spend quality time with him/ her and forget about other worries like money shortage etc. Even if you worry, it would not be of any help because nothing is going to change but you have wasted time together.
For me, I used to think I would be happy if I bought a new shopping item. Yes, indeed I will be happy, but its only for that instant. The happiness does not last very long. However, recently, I realised that helping others and seeing them feeling really happy, gives me happiness right from the heart. It lasts so long, the feeling is so good. This which I never thought I would feel before. I never thought that helping others will give me happiness. Of course, I don't really mean all those beggers or whoever who go around begging for money. I don't know about you, but I know there really are some fakers who go around begging so pitifully and yet behind our backs, they can be so mean to others.
Example will be an indian Lady selling tissue papers at Somerset. She always sell tissue papers and acted until so pitifully at the traffic junction. But once my friend who used to work at This Fashion, got to taste her meaness when she wanted to buy some clothes for her child. That Indian lady threw the whole lot of coins onto the counter and demanded her to count and get her child a clothes.
Of course, I won't say all are like that, there are truely some who are needy of help. I believe if your really want to help others, instead of giving those faslies or whatsoever, its better that you donate your money to some charity organisations who will in turn benefit the needy.
Recently, I won't feel good if I see people not feeling well or feeling sad.I felt its my duty to help them as long as its within my means. Just like when one of my supervisor got sick, I felt that I should do something to make her happy. I bought watermelon juice knowing she had cough and fever. Upon seeing the drink, she was so delighted but paid me back the money. But for that moment, she wanted badly a drink like that. I felt happy whenever I thought of it. I did many other things and seeing people happy, I would be happy too. It doesn't have to be in monetary terms. Some simple small gestures and you can see smiles around you.
Simple pleasures like smelling something good. When wonderful smell of food lingers into my nose. I am sure many of you have the luxury of mothers whipping delicious meals for you. But have you ever stopped to think how fortunate you are? Or walking hand in hand with your beloved along the beach/ park? Enjoy the moment, every single second that worth remembering and treasured will give you happiness. God Bless.
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