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「 Greatly Blessed, Highly Favoured, Deeply Loved 11:28 AM 」
Fear
A familiar feeling? This is the fear of the unknown. And worse, the fear of what is apparently known, twisted by misperceptions. Last time, I used to be so frightened by cats that seeing on one from afar can make me scream at the top of my lungs. You either expect me to stand on the chair or run away from my desk if any cats will to sit beside me. When you are experiencing fear, your brain send out signals to make you on a flight state. However, you ask yourself, do you feel good this way? I bet not. Your heart pounders very heart, you go into cold sweat, and not able to enjoy your meal. All because of the word 'fear'. Even if you are on a holiday at Tioman where the environment and food are perfect except for a few cats, you ruined your own day.
Is the senario familiar? Or small and simple worry or fear like, I wonder if it will rain when I go out. Or how will he feel about you after you came back from a date? And there you think and think, worry and worry. All these are unknowningly a fear which you are not aware of. Then you may think, and realise there are so many things you are fearful of.
Fear of rejection also prevents you from making new friends. Ever seen a person you feel like approaching? Go ahead, just talk to the person. Be it the opposite sex or same sex. If you feel like speaking to that person, JUST GO AHEAD! Don't worry whether the person will feel that you are pretencious or fake or what so ever. Who knows at the end you will make a new found friend. Then maybe now you realise why Christians are so friendly. Ever been to a church, then you realise everyone seem so fake like they smile and hug and whatsoever? Well, now you know.
If only we learn to enjoy yourself at the very moment and not worry about what will be happening next, we will be sooooo much happier. And I am not kidding, its SO much happier. If you are waiting for someone, just get something to enjoy. Be it a magazine, or listening to your MP3 or whatsoever. Instead of whining,"Goosh, that woman is ALWAYS LATE!" And felt all the anger rushing through making you lose your cool. But of course, if that person is CONSTANTLY late, then better be clever la. Arrive late as well. Haha.
For me, fear is almost a stranger. I don't have as much fear as I used to because I strongly believe that I am blessed.
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